REASONS WHY A GIRL BREAKS UP WITH A GUY

In spite of all your did, she still dumped and broke up with you, why? Most times it not about you being the perfect gentleman. Maybe she needed something out of the ordinary to break free from her already bored life or maybe she was just have some hidden which she has accomplished or it did not play out the way she wanted. Here are the top reasons a girl would dump a guy. Click Here for why a guy breaks up with a girl

Top Reasons a girl breaks up with a guy

1.      Lack of Confidence: The feminine nature treasures the alpha ego. When a lady controls a man, she believes that he can as well be control by anybody and not man enough. Ladies love a guy who can call the shot and be able to defend her at all time. If a guy cannot take charge of the relationship and be in the driving seat, no matter how nice you are, you are on your way to being dumped.

2.      Too Boring: Relationship is an adventure, ladies are like a cat that needs to be amused or else they find another playmate, therefore the adventurous guy who never runs out of ideas to tickles the lady’s fantasy is the sure deal. The ladies need someone they can laugh with, joke with, try new things together and have fun. The reserved and conservative guy, no matter how good, will be dump pretty quickly by the lady and tagged BORING.

3.      Not enough care: In this ages that women needs are getting more and more varied, a lady needs a guy who is financially secure to guarantee endless supplies to her needs. They want to look attractive and presentable and this is evidence in the amount of care from the guy. When you fall short of this, breakup is inevitable.

4.      No time for her: Ladies crave attention, they may not have any specific reason but they just want to spend quality time with you (don’t get me wrong, I said QUALITY time). The desire to feel wanted and that the guy actually care about them drives the passion in ladies, do not underestimate it.

5.      Over-possessive: While taking charge of the relationship, the guy should not be seen as being over controlling or over-possessive of their partner. This suffocates the relationship and any small outlet that promises fresh air is quickly taken. Insecurity and over-jealously is repulsive and is a fast track to being dumped

6.      Not being good in bed: If a girl had fantasies of how the intimacy will be and you are not living up to the anticipation, then she is just bidding her time. It is worst if the intimacy with the ex was way better than yours, her eagerness to get over with it, turning over to sleep without any word or smile is a red light. I don’t think there is any cure for this, once the girl has it in her head that you are not good, it is very hard to up your game cos it is more psychological than human effort.

7.      No love or passion at all: If a girl had ulterior motives other than mutual attraction when she accepted to go out with you, it would not take long before the motives are fulfilled and she goes off, other times, the reality may not meet up with what she was expecting and off she goes as well. Impressing a girl with unsolicited gifts and caring will only turn her head for a while, where there is no mutual feelings, the center cannot hold in any relationship.

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